
Relationship Safety & Coercive Control Checklist
Continuing your healing journey with gentle guidance and support
A Guide for Women Dating or Entering a Relationship


Healthy love should feel safe, respectful, calm, and supportive — not confusing, fearful, controlling, or emotionally exhausting.
This checklist is designed to help identify patterns of:
coercive control
emotional abuse
manipulation
narcissistic behaviour
intimidation
unhealthy attachment
potential domestic/family violence risk
patterns
escalation
frequency
intensity
how safe you feel emotionally and physically




Understanding Abuse & Recognising Warning Signs


Early Warning Signs of an Abusive Person




















